Discover Your Sexual Self: Steps Towards a Healthier Relationship with Your Own Sexuality
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Thank you for your trust…
Yours, Gorana
Are you ready to explore the depths of your sexual identity and build a deeper connection with yourself? This insightful guide is designed to help you build a more profound and understanding relationship with your sexuality through self-awareness and intentional exploration.
Key Highlights:
Create a Relationship with Your Body: Learn to connect with your body through various life stages, from early childhood to adulthood.
Navigate Childhood and Puberty: Explore how early experiences and puberty shape your sexuality. Understand the importance of addressing these stages for a healthier sexual identity.
Heal Through Self-Discovery: Engage in exercises to listen to your body and understand your emotional and physical responses, paving the way for healing and growth.
And Much More!
Explore these steps to better understand your sexuality and build a healthier relationship with your desires and boundaries. Each section is designed to guide you through self-discovery and healing, fostering a more fulfilling and empowered sexual journey. Begin your path to a deeper connection with yourself today!
My first teacher and motivator for the adventure through which I am traveling today was bulimia, which appeared during my studies at the Faculty of Kinesiology.
She taught me a lot about ego, humility, spirituality, love and invited me on a journey towards myself. At that time, begging for help, I met great helpers who connected me with the wisdom of the body, from which I had become very separated due to illness. Even though I was not a believer, the prayer that appeared in my wounded heart at that time was…”God, please help me to be more aware every day than the last…” At that time I had no idea what it really meant and I didn’t I could only dream of the path that prayer would take me, but the path was really incredible!
The helpers that appeared in my life then, called yoga and body-oriented psychotherapy, have woven themselves into my life so deeply that I literally live them, not do them. (And this is what I most often get as a reflection from people I come into contact with through work).
When I healed my illness, I wanted to help people who, like me, ask for help. I discovered my calling and embarked on the path of education for a body-oriented psychotherapist. It was quite challenging to give birth to a child, start a business, move to a new city and study a rather intensive program in the same year, but with the support of my partner, little by little my six-year studies came to an end, the job was done, and my daughter was growing up. My business slowly expanded from a yoga studio to a psychotherapy practice. I improved in that field. She enrolled in a master’s degree in gestalt psychotherapy, studied, worked, was a mother…
At that time, due to the tremendous pressure from all sides, I was quite bad with myself. At that moment, I had a lot of cognitive knowledge “how things should look”, because I had learned all kinds of things, but this knowledge had not yet been integrated and embodied. The process of change wasn’t over yet, it was ongoing, so I was quite rigid and hard on myself at that time. And quite critical of her partner, which resulted in a damaged partner relationship. At the time, my partner was studying in the third year of body-oriented psychotherapy education and through the education, due to the coldness of his relationship with me, he fell in love with another woman. Fortunately, he had enough courage to tell me this and be honest with me. My anger, pride and separation followed, which completely devastated me. The pride I used to defend myself was only a defense against pain.
An ectopic pregnancy that then almost took me to another world was the last point of that descent into the abyss, but it brought my husband back as support.
It was the darkest period of my life in which I lost confidence in my own body, lost my partner, therapist, friends who were too much for my pain and craziness.
Through his painful process during that period, my partner discovered that he was polyamorous (until then we didn’t even know that polyamory existed!), and I finally realized how much I cared about that wonderful man.
And then I understood!!! “You haven’t lost your partner, he’s still there, just not in the way you dreamed he would be.” It was a huge turning point for me.
I felt alive again. I felt all the emotions very intensely.
I witnessed how much my heart opens. Rigidity broke. The defense is down. A new life has begun.
We stepped together into a space that was unknown to everyone. A space that was completely unsupported in the society in which I live. A space where I followed my wounded heart, but I didn’t really know where I was going. Today I know that I was led by the spirit. It was meant to be. Many people left my life during that period, and I closed myself off from the world and people because I was afraid to expose my truth.
I decided to listen to my heart and follow love even though I was getting messages from the outside…”He is bad for you, get away, you don’t need him. He doesn’t deserve you”…I decided to follow love and build honesty in the relationship. Our relationship began to grow like a Phoenix. Everything we had ever put under the carpet, we were now getting to know, communicating, going through… little by little we were healing our relationship.
Then our son was born with gastroschisis, so through 4 months of living in the hospital I learn even more deeply about humility, love and surrender.
During the following time, we both met and fell in love with a beautiful young woman. He immediately admitted it to himself, and I realized only through sabotaging and actually destroying that love for her that I betrayed my love because of a previous unhealed wound, jealousy and insecurity that at that time I did not know how to handle alone, and I did not have enough support from the environment to allow my heart to love and explore love, because that was not “normal”.
The whole experience gave me the gift of loving in a different way, because through the pain of losing love, I learned what is important to me and what I want to live for in the future.
Then I met the SAME support and slowly began to open up outside my 4 walls.
Today I know that love can be lived, because I live it much more freely than ever before.
Today I know that life brings us the lessons we need, not the ones we want.
Today I know how to open the heart and how to love.
Today I know how to let go and flow.
Today I know that I am supported to be who I am. And that it is the only right way.
Living your truth. Have a positive intention and go where your heart leads you.
Polyamory is not an evolutionary step forward in society. It is not better than a monogamous relationship, nor worse than a monogamous relationship.
She is another choice that exists, if it aligns with your belief systems.
My belief system says that love is free and should be free.
My belief system says that I can go through anything in a relationship if there is truth and trust in the relationship. For me, truth, friendship and trust are what give me wings to grow even more. And I am uncompromising here.
First of all, I want to be true to my heart and respect the love and vitality that appears in me, my partner or any being I meet, because for me this is contact with the deepest truth – God.
That’s why I decided to stand with my truth. To talk about love and freedom in a society that is full of rules based on fear, not on the foundations of love.
And I want to support everyone who chooses to live love and grow in presence and surrender with the people they surround themselves with. If you have recognized that something vibrates in you with all that you have read and you want to work with me, I am here for you…